David Ortiz

Today is the last regular season game for David Ortiz, the most important Boston sports persona of my life.  I’m a grown ass woman and I am going to cry like a baby during the ceremony.  Like a BABY.  

What does David Ortiz mean to us?   Just everything.  He was a cast away from a team that didn’t know what to do with him.  He came to us, a huge man with a huge personality and a huge heart.   He’s been a leader on the field, in life and in our hearts.   See, in our absolute darkest of times, after having been eliminated in the 2003 ALCS in the most excruciating way,  living through the long, long off season where we didn’t sign ARod (lesson:  what you think you want is not always what you really need), after a magical season to find ourselves in the playeoffs against our most fierce rival, only to go down 3-0, losing game 3 in the most humilating of fashsions.  We were going to get swept by the New York Yankees on our own field.  The abyss loomed and the dread was palpable.   And then Millar walked (there is life for the Red Sox), Dave Roberts came in to pitch run, Bill Mueller waited through a number of throw overs (Bill Mueller still waiting for his first pitch), until Dave Roberts stole second, the Mueller hit him in (Bill Mueller… has tied it).   For three excrutating innings we remained tied, late into the night.  No one went to bed.  No one went to bed for the entire ALCS, actually.   

And then…. Ortiz into deep right field.  Back is Sheifield.  We’ll see you later tonight.   

The Red Sox didn’t lose another game that season, winning three more against the Yankees, then four straight against the Cardinals to win the World Series.   That is what hope, heart and hard work can do.   That swing changed a fan base long used to losing, long used to heart break.  We have pre-2004 and post-2004 thinking now.  What he gave us was hope.  Hope that even when things appear their darkest, things can still change, things can get better.   Every time he approaches the plate, there is hope that this game can turn around.  Life can turn around.  And that is priceless.   Thank you so much for that gift, my friend.    

So many other hits, so many other memories… from worst to first, to worst to worst to first again, and then in our darkest time, he reminded us what really matters.   An immigrant who became a US citizen, but whose home is Boston, he is what this country is all about.  

So today will be the last regular season game, but we still have the playoffs, so I don’t have to say goodbye just yet.  But we will miss you and everything you represent, our Big Papi.  

#ThanksPapi

 

 

EXTRA… for those of you don’t know what it was like to be a Red Sox fan and just how much we changed after 2004 (and 2007 and 2013), I highly encourage you to watch the following back to back:

Still We Believe.  The Boston Red Sox Movie.   A documentary about the 2003 season..

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0403893/

Four Days in October.   The four days where the Red Sox went from 0-3 in the ALCS to the World Series.

Oh and by the way, the 2004 ALCS?   His hit won Game 5, too. 

And yeah, he hit a grand slam in the 2013 World Series.   The picture of the cop in the bullpen is STILL my phone home screen. 

And if you need more, and there is more…

Elizabeth Gilbert wants ME to read Love Warrior

I KNEW we were secretly besties even if she has no idea I exist! 

Despite being a huge fan of the whole Liz Gilbert, Brene Brown (sorry, no accent), Cheryl Strayed, Gretchin Rubin world of possibilities, I have never heard of Glennon Doyle Melton (and with that name I expect her to be a relative of Kate Middleton), but I thought:  

Hold on, wait a minute… is that not the same book that just got selected for Oprah’s Bookclub??   What book deities have rained down on Ms. Melton to achieve the perfect storm of book publicity?  I mean once you have Oprah, is there need for more?   Call off the dogs.   

Someone tell me if this book is actually this good.  I need to know!

Tears for My Country…

Enough, I don’t want to turn on the news, but I will after I post this.   I’m so tired of the violence.  I’m so tired of worrying about some poor soul’s family and friends.   Enough.  

The United States is a country with so much promise that has given so much to so many, though not perfect, it’s been a bitch for so many as well.   But if we work together, there is so much we could accomplish. 

You just can’t kill people because you’re angry, because that just makes someone else angry.  And this will never end.   We could be so much better than this.  

 

Sorry to the victims and their families in Dallas this evening, and the victims of all other violent crimes, covered by major news media or not. 

The look on the face…

of your fellow book club member, after they say they read 3 – 4 books a year (for our book club) when, in order to decide on the next book, you whip out your phone to call up your Google Doc TBR list… categorized, prioritized, any book for any occasion.  

On becoming the thing I never, ever, ever thought I would: Vegan

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One day at work, my co-worker announced “that’s it!  I’m not eating sugar anymore!”.   

What?   What brought this on? 

It seems another co-worker had watched a documentary on the evils of sugar:  That Sugar Movie

Sugar?  The stuff that makes cupcakes so good?  Bad for you?  

Sigh and sigh again because you know it’s true.  You KNOW it’s true.  

But to give it up.  Really?   No.   

My co-workers gathered around to hear more about this evil substance ruining our lives and health.  Suddenly people were mentioning other documentaries they’d heard of or seen.  In quick succession they were thrown out:    

 

Forks Over Knives

Eating a whole food, plant based diet solves health problems, makes you feel great and have tons of energy. 

Food Matters

Our food system is poisoning us and the pharmaceutical industry is there to clean up the mess.

Food, Inc.

How the food industry has grown and changed, includes quite a bit on the treatment of animals. 

 

So, I thought about it.   I had Vegan friends.  I had discussed the pros and cons of vegan cheese.  I, no way shape or form, thought I could ever, and do mean ever, give up dairy.   Cheese, yogurt, butter… these are necessary in  life.  

The following Monday I returned to work and was almost immediately accosted by the co-worker most skeptical of sugars evil:  

“Amy!   We’re all going to die!”

“Um… yes, I think that is correct.    Also I haven’t had enough coffee for this conversation.”  

“No!”  She exclaimed followed by rant on all things food:  animal mistreatment!   Sugar will kill us!  GMOs!  Pesticides!  Growth hormones! The envionment!

Her arms were flailing and she appeared wild eyed.   Then I noticed what was in her hand. 

“Wait, hold up.  What are you drinking?”  

“This is an organic kale smoothy.”   

This from the girl who routinely ate the meat lovers panini for lunch. 

“What happened?” 

“I watched them”, she said”The documentaries.   I watched ALL of them.”

She had a crazy look in her eye, as if she had seen things we weren’t supposed to see.   In two days she had subjected herself to part of the agribusiness that no food loving person should want to be aware of.  Do you really want to know where your food comes from? 

I decided I did.   I could not watch all of the documentaries in two days.  But over a week I watched all of them and more:    

 

Fat, Sick and Nearly Dead

Joe Cross travels around the US juicing, losing weight and educating people on the benefits of juicing.

Vegucated

Six New Yorkers try veganism and are educated about the food industry.   This one has some fairly graphic photos of animal treatment. 

GMO OMG

Trust no one

 

 I made this and I ate it!   Look at the pretty colors.

I made this and I ate it!   Look at the pretty colors.

Netflix will just keep recommending them to you (along with, inexplicably, Fuller House, but that is a story for another day).   And if you watch them back to back to back, I dare you to not change how you think about what you put in your mouth each day. 

The way animals are treated, the cost to our environment, our desire for the cheapest food possible.  Surely the healthcare issues we see in the western world are correlated.   Nothing I could write could make you understand the visuals in these films, so I encourage you to watch them, form your own opinions and make your own decisions.

All I knew is that I could no longer support that industry.  I couldn’t live with knowing what I now knew.  Every dollar you spend is a vote because corporations only respond to money.  

Oh, no.   I never, ever want to be one of those preachy foodie, vegetarian, vegan types, but….   I was horrified.  Disturbed.  Disgusted.    Though I am 100% sure there are wonderful farmers out there, farmers who don’t do the things described in these films, but I’m also 100% sure there are huge agricultural businesses that do these things every day and I have no reliable way to know the difference.  I am currently reading a book about Organic food labeling that doesn’t make feel I can trust it.

 

 

 

If you had asked me a year ago, six months ago even two months ago for a list of things I would never do, going Vegan would be pretty high on that list.   I love cheese.  I mean I LOVE cheese.   Yet here I am.  What’s next?   Run a marathon?  Let’s not get ahead of ourselves.  One life change at a time.

Read-a-thon Half Time Survey

1. What are you reading right now?

I’m about to pick up Nine Stories by JD Salinger

2. How many books have you read so far?

One

3. What book are you most looking forward to for the second half of the Read-a-thon?

Getting back into The Merry Recluse, essays by Caroline Knapp

4. Have you had many interruptions? How did you deal with those?

I had some errands, during which I listened to an audio book.   I went to they gym, something I have committed to myself to do.  That was just a non-reading time as I need to take classes else I won’t work as hard. 

5. What surprises you most about the Read-a-thon, so far?

What a fun community of readers are out there.  I’m not sure why that surprises me.  Of course book people are fun and cool!